How to Establish a Baby Bedtime Routine

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If there is one thing most baby, sleep and baby sleep experts tend to agree on, it’s the importance of establishing a baby bedtime routine. Helping your little one to create associations with sleep is an important step on the path to longer and more restorative rest for the whole household. Establishing routines can take some time and (a lot of) patience, but here’s why it’s worth the effort.
reviewed by Genevieve Titov, Sleep Angel
3 min read |
05 November, 2023

Why Is a Baby Bedtime Routine Important?

Babies aren't born knowing the difference between day and night. A consistent bedtime routine helps teach them. By repeating the same calming sequence of events each evening, you're building sleep cues that signal to your baby's brain: "It's time to wind down." 

Over time, these cues help reinforce your baby's developing circadian rhythms and can make settling easier, even during tricky patches like sleep regressions. A predictable routine also creates a lovely bonding window for you and your baby at the end of the day.

Here are some of the key benefits:

       Reinforces your baby's natural body clock

       Creates positive sleep habits through consistent sleep cues

       Can help during sleep regressions by providing familiar comfort

       May improve settling problems over time

       Gives you a calming, bonding ritual to look forward to each day

When Should You Start a Bedtime Routine?

There's no rush. In the first 6 to 8 weeks, your baby is still adjusting to life on the outside, and their needs change so quickly that a rigid routine won't stick. That's completely normal.

You can absolutely start offering gentle sleep associations during this time (like swaddling or dimming the lights), but there's no pressure to have a formal routine locked in. Most families find that somewhere around 10 to 12 weeks is a natural time to start building a more consistent newborn sleep routine.

FAQs on bedtime routine

Should babies nap before bedtime?
It’s best not to schedule a nap just before your baby’s bedtime. If your baby needs to nap before the bedtime you’ve chosen, you may need to adjust their routine slightly. If baby has just taken a nap, they will need some awake time before they can fall back to sleep again. If your little one is overtired (for example, they missed out on some sleep at daycare) then they may need to take a nap. Life is full of interruptions. You can adjust bedtime slightly to suit these interruptions, but aim for consistency wherever possible.
Does putting my baby to bed earlier help them sleep longer?
Some research suggests that on average, babies that go to bed earlier, tend to sleep longer. The theory that putting baby to bed later will help them wake up later (in-line with you) isn’t necessarily sound. Your baby’s body clock is established early and there is evidence to suggest that babies that have earlier bedtimes enjoy better quality sleep.
Should feeding be a part of my baby’s bedtime routine?
Feeding can definitely be a part of a bedtime routine, after all babies that are well fed tend to be able to sleep for longer periods. Feeding baby just before they go to bed can be incorporated into the bedtime routine.
Should I bathe my baby each night before bed?
Bathing can be a fantastic part of a bedtime routine. If you can spare the time each night, it’s a calming, soothing activity that is bonding for parent/carer and baby but it's not essential when they are small. Above all, keep your bedtime routine simple, achievable and as consistent as possible.

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