Responding to Overtired Baby Signs & Cues: How to Spot Them and What to Do

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In the relatively non-verbal landscape we share with our baby, we start to learn, read and interpret a variety of physical cues and body language to help us determine their needs. This is never truer than when it comes to an overtired baby. Thankfully, there are a range of signals our baby can give us to let us know they’re ready for bed. Some signs are pretty obvious, we do them ourselves. But others may require a little more detective work.
reviewed by Genevieve Titov, Sleep Angel
3 min read |
26 March, 2022

Why Catching Tired Signs Early Matters

When a baby becomes overtired, their body can go into a stress response, triggering adrenaline and cortisol production. That makes falling asleep harder, not easier. It’s a bit of a cruel trick, really.

Recognising your baby’s tired cues before they tip into that overtired zone can save you both from the bigger battle of trying to settle a wired, upset little one. Understanding wake windows can also help you stay ahead of tiredness before those cues even appear.

Common Overtired Signs in Newborns

Every baby has their own set of signals, and you’ll tune into your little one’s rhythms over time. But here are the ones to watch for in the early weeks and months.

Jerking Arms and Legs

Sudden, uncontrolled or jerky arm and leg movements are a sign your newborn is reaching the end of their awake time. If you spot this, it’s a good cue to start your nap routine. Swaddling can help calm those movements and make settling easier.

Frowning

It’s subtle, but a frown often means your baby is becoming unhappy with the current situation and needs a break. Think of it as their polite way of saying “I’m done.”

Going Pink Around the Eyebrows

This one catches a lot of parents off guard. A slight pinkness around the eyebrows can be caused by hormonal changes or eye rubbing, and it’s a reliable early cue that tiredness is setting in.

Staring Into Space

If your baby has lost interest in the world around them and is gazing blankly, they may be starting to zone out from tiredness. Time to wind things down.

Yawning

The classic. Just like adults, a yawn is one of the more obvious tired signs. If you notice your baby yawning, it’s a strong signal to start the sleep routine.

Arching Their Back

When babies arch their back, it can mean they’re upset, restless, or uncomfortable. If you haven’t already, start your nap time routine.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do overtired babies fight sleep?
Overtired babies may have to overcome their moderately stressed state before they’re able to settle themselves into sleep. As their bodies can produce stress hormones when overtired, extra settling, or soothing may be required to help your baby into sleep (and that’s ok).
How long will an overtired baby stay awake?
An overtired baby can stay awake up to hours after their usual nap time. It’s a good idea to help them on their way with extra soothing, settling or feeding.
How do you get an overtired baby to sleep?
Once you’ve recognised your baby is overtired, help them out by using your preferred settling techniques. First, take a few minutes to reset yourself - the stress of trying to soothe an overtired baby when you're running on empty can be really hard! Your baby may have trouble settling themselves in an overtired state. A few things you could consider are: Swaddling, Bathing, Motion, White noise, Gentle massage. They will sleep eventually so buckle in and know this too shall pass!
Should you let an overtired baby cry it out?
Avoid letting your baby cry it out when they are overtired. While they may eventually fall asleep, it may be more of a short nap and they are likely to get themselves into a state of exhaustion first.
Do overtired babies wake up crying?
Overtired babies have been known to wake up crying or agitated. If the process of getting themselves to sleep has been somewhat stressful, they may not have enjoyed the length and quality of sleep required and may still seem unhappy.
Does overtiredness cause night waking?
Overtiredness can cause a vicious cycle of night waking and early waking. Ensuring that your baby is given ample opportunity to rest at the end of their awake time each time, may help avoid getting into shorter nap times and night waking
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At Love To Dream™, we know that every child is different, and we’re committed to helping you to find the right solution for your family. With you at every step, Love To Dream™ believes today’s little dreamers are the shapers of tomorrow. For further advice from our experts, visit our blog.  

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