What To Do If Your Newborn Won’t Sleep Or Nap During The Day

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This is a tough one. You are obsessed with your newborn and they are lovely to spend time with but if all your basic needs are going by the way-side because your beautiful little side kick isn't sleeping, it might be time to look at what else you can try to get some shut eye for them (and you!) Let's have a look at the reasons why your newborn might be struggling to get that sweet sleep and what might help.
Love To Dream
3 min read |
30 May, 2023

Reasons why your newborn is not sleeping or napping during the day

There could be a few different reasons your baby sleeps well at night but not for naps, and thankfully it’s probably not because they’re a natural-born party animal. Some of the most common reasons are:

OvertiredΒ 

Once your baby becomesΒ overtired, it’s much harder to get to sleep. In an overtired state, your little one can produce cortisol and stress hormones, making the task of falling asleep a lot harder. Watch for your baby’s sleepy cues, so you can try to put them down for a nap before they reach the point of being overtired.Β 

Overstimulated

Babies are sensitive to light and sound. If you’ve taken your baby to a loud, busy place or they’re being passed around the lunch table by a legion of adoring fans, they may become overstimulated and unable to fall asleep right away come nap time. Consider some down time before a nap, and give your little one the opportunity to fall asleep somewhere calm and quiet when their awake time is coming to an end.Β 

HungerΒ 

It’s a good idea to schedule a feed just before nap time, to give your baby the opportunity to fill up their tiny tummy. There are some recommendations not to feed your baby to sleep to avoid developing hard-to-break sleep associations but sometimes, you just need to do what works to get the sleep happening! Β 

DiscomfortΒ 

If your baby is wet or they are uncomfortable with the temperature, they may not be able to settle for sleep. Always ensure baby has a fresh diaper before their nap, and that they are dressed andΒ swaddledΒ in breathable fabrics that are temperature-appropriate to the climate you’re in.Β 

Number of NapsΒ 

Babies often have frequent naps throughout the day but getting too few, or too many, can have a knock on effect to their sleep. Following their sleep cues and awake windows for their age can be helpful if some fine tuning of your sleep patterns or catnapping is occurring.Β Β 

    Change of settling techniqueΒ 

    If you’re in the process of changing how your baby falls asleep or training them to self-settle, that may be a reasonΒ baby’s not sleeping during the day. For example, if your baby is used to being, rocked, patted or fed to sleep and you are trying to have them fall asleep in their crib , it may take a period of adjustment before you baby becomes accustomed to a newΒ sleep cycleΒ or way of falling asleep.Β 

    How to get your newborn to nap during the day

    There is no magic quick fix unfortunately and sometimes "babies be babies" but implementing some of the below tips might just help lay the right foundations for a better nap:Β 

    • Create a consistent sleep routine and allow your baby to have ample awake time before trying to put them down for a nap
    • Watch for sleepy cues and ensure baby is given the opportunity to nap before they becomeΒ overtired
    • Let baby has some quiet time before their nap and is not being overstimulated by activities or their surrounding environment
    • Feed, change and swaddle baby just before they nap. You can use the same swaddle for day and night, it helps build a strong sleep cue.Β 
    • Ensure your baby’s environment is conducive to sleep. If you can, dim the lights, ensure the room is at a comfortable temperature and minimize any disruptions

    FAQ’s about babies not napping during the day

    What if my baby doesn’t sleep during the day?
    It can be really tough to do when you're also sleep and rest deprived but keep testing different combinations or look for a clue as to what the issue might be. It may be that your baby is having trouble settling, isΒ overtiredΒ or uncomfortable. Or maybe they like having a walk in the pram before their feed and then feel rested and calm for sleep. If you’ve tried everything or are at your limit, contact your preferred health care professional for personalised advice. Sleep deprivation
    Why is my baby fighting naps?
    There can be so many reasons why the nap just ain't napping but as we looked at above, there can be lots of little things to tweak to try and establish more consistent sleep. Just know, there is an element of development normalcy for babies to have unpredictable sleep but only you can know when it's at a point that needs further help.
    Why is my newborn not sleeping after feeding?
    There may be many reasons your newborn is not sleeping after feeding. They may be uncomfortable, have gas or an intolerance. Begin by gently ensuring your baby has had the opportunity to get rid of gas in their tummy after feeding, or consult your health care professional if you notice your baby is showing signs they are in discomfort after each feed.Β 
    Should you swaddle a newborn for daytime naps?
    Swaddling your babyΒ for each nap and bedtime routine not only provides them with a feeling of security and comfort, it is a signal to your baby that it’s time for sleeping. Swaddles not only provide comfort, but can help reduce baby’s sudden reflexes from waking them up too abruptly duringΒ naps.
    How do I get my baby to nap without being held?
    Ah, the nap trap! If your baby is used to going to sleep in your warm embrace, who would blame them? It may take a few days to establish a new settle to sleep routine but to begin this transition, ensure youΒ swaddle your babyΒ for maximum cosy comfort. If they’re not going to have your arms to make them feel secure, the swaddle will provide a feeling of safety. You may then give your baby a cuddle until they’re in a sleepy state, and then put them gently down into their crib orΒ bassinet. If this wakes them, try keeping your hand on their tummy and comforting them from beside the crib and see if this helps. It can take a few days and trying at every nap!
    At what age do babies stop napping?
    At around the 2.5 to 3-year mark, your baby will likely show signs they are ready to drop their daytime nap. You will start to notice more resistance to the daytime nap and perhaps your toddler will be more wakeful at bedtime.Β 

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